I'm feeling much better.
Have decided there are just two urgent jobs. the plan is to get them done by the end of August. Everything else will have to be put on the back burner to deal with the Cliff practical stuff. The emotional stuff will be harder to deal with.
I am also scheduling a few fun things to do for myself (because it's all about me!). I am off to The Grant Museum on Tuesday night with V.C.
...And come Hell or Highwater, I am going down to Cornwall next month for Sword Fest .
Thanks for the support. Texts, emails, comments and calls have really helped.